One + Another = Relationship!

One + Another = Relationships
If you had to identify yourself on a scale where one is “I’m a loner” and five is “I have to be with people” what number would you give yourself?
Different people have different needs for the amount of human interaction they feel they need. The interaction can be casual, and on the surface, or it can be intentional and revealing from deep within. To a large degree, we can control the level of interaction that keeps us in our comfort zone. Good things may happen, however, when we are willing to test that zone a little, and Jesus set that example for us.
What are the risks of being open to new or deeper relationships? As we relate to one another, we will find that our human nature will create challenges to address. Here are five ways to be prepared to address these challenges!

• Seek to live in peace with one another.

Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy… Hebrews 12:14a
What changes might you make that could reduce conflict, arguments, or selfishness in your relationships?

• Be intentional to reach out in love.

And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity. Colossians 3:14
How would this change of approach impact your relationships?

• Show respect and honor to others.

Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. Romans 12:10
How could this thought impact your relationship with co-workers, family, and faith family

• Forgive each other.

“…you should rather turn to forgive and comfort him, or he may be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. So I beg you to reaffirm your love for him.” 2 Corinthians 2:7,8
Be aware of opportunities to forgive rather than criticize, judge, or seek revenge.

• Share life with others.

“…so we cared for you. Because we loved you so much, we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well.“ 1 Thessalonians 2:8
Do you need to be more open and transparent with the people you care about? Can you transform a relationship that is simply task-oriented to one that grows a relationship?
 
4832 Ponderings:
As you look at the Bible verses above, how can you translate them into specific actions and words this week? Don’t take on too much or you will feel overwhelmed. Pick small, doable actions.